Wednesday, December 29, 2010

If God is watching us, the least we can do is be entertaining.
So any bright ideas folk...
Have a lovely morning to you all :)

Tuesday, December 28, 2010

“Let us rise up and be thankful, for if we didn't learn a lot today, at least we learned a little, and if we didn't learn a little, at least we didn't get sick, and if we got sick, at least we didn't die; so, let us all be thankful.”

Morning everybody :)

Thursday, December 23, 2010

A conclusion is the place where you got tired of thinking, and tell u I am done....

How you all been... have a great day ahead..:)

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

If laughter is the best medicine, who's the idiot who said they 'died laughing'? ...... think

Good Morning every body :)

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Why is it that everyone driving faster than you is considered an idiot and everyone driving slower than you is a moron?

Morning everybody... ;) Had a refreshing jog and walk this morning with zsuzssana, with our colleague visiting from Malaysia.

Monday, December 20, 2010

Everything is changing. People are taking the comedians seriously and the politicians as a joke....
I started believing in that...

Morning everybody....:)
15 Things Not to Say to Your Boss ..

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15 Things Not to Say to Your Boss ..


“Think before you speak” is always a good policy, and in the workplace the maxim could be further refined to “think before you blurt out something to your boss that could hurt your career.” We checked in with some bosses, and came up with this list of 15 phrases bosses definitely don’t want to hear: 

1. “I’m only doing this job for the money.”
No boss wants to hear that your sole motivation for showing up is your paycheck. She may know that money is your motivation, and you may know she knows, but it’s still better left unsaid.

2. “I’m broke/in debt/one step away from bankruptcy.”
Your financial woes are not your boss’s concern. Period.

3. “I’m going to quit after I (fill in the blank).”
No matter how noble your future plans are -- you may be saving to start your own company or go to grad school, for example -- it’s usually best to keep those plans to yourself or to refer to them only vaguely. If your boss knows there is a definite end date to your employment, she may start to shop around for your replacement before you are ready to leave.

4. “I partied a little too hard last night.”
Buck up and get through the day with some ibuprofen, extra undereye concealer and coffee. But don’t share the sordid details of your night on the town with your boss. He’s just as likely to react with (unspoken) disdain as sympathy.

5. “It’s not my fault.”
Are you a whiny 8-year-old or a take-charge professional? Assume responsibility and take steps to fix a problem that you did, in fact, create. And if you are being wrongly blamed for a problem, saying “let’s get to the bottom of this” or “what can we do to make it right?” is much more effective than saying “it’s not my fault.”

6. “I’m bored/this job is boring.”
Didn’t your mother ever tell you that only boring people get bored? If you’re constantly twiddling your thumbs, ask for extra work and be as specific as you can. And if you’re busy but think your assigned tasks are less-than-stimulating, start strategizing about how you can get the job you want, either within your company or elsewhere.

7. “My job is too easy.”
Sure, you may think a monkey could do your job. But don’t give your boss any ideas -- your company could probably pay a monkey less than it pays you.

8. “I can’t work with so and so. I hate him.”
Involving your boss in personality conflicts should always be your last resort. So unless you are being threatened, scapegoated, encouraged to participate in unethical behavior, or your colleague or customer is engaged in other egregious workplace conduct, try to work it out between yourselves first.

9. “I can’t do that because of my other job.” In your boss’s mind, a second job is not a valid excuse for why you can’t stay late, work extra hours or finish a project on time. She may question your priorities, and rightly so.

10. “Oh my Gawd! How did you do this job before the Internet/text messaging/Skype?”
Although not a cardinal workplace sin, making your boss feel old will not score you any points.

11. Sigh. Grimace. Eye roll. Wretching noises.
Actions can speak louder than words. A poker face and silence are golden when you’re displeased with your boss.

12. “Do it yourself!”
No need for explanation. Just never say this. Ever.

13. “It’s always been done this way.”
You don’t want to gain a reputation as an inflexible dinosaur, so keep an open mind about how you do your work. And if you’re convinced that a new way of doing things is going to harm your company, present your case without using “because that’s the way we’ve always done it” to support your position.

14. “Let me set you up with...”
Avoid the urge to play matchmaker for your single boss. The potential benefit is far outweighed by the potential risk. For that matter, any socializing with your boss (even something as simple as friending him on Facebook) can cause you to share too much information, so consider limiting social interactions entirely.

15. “Sorry, I must have drifted off.” C’mon, wake up! If you’re caught with your eyes closed, feign deep concentration rather than admit you were dozing.

Sunday, December 19, 2010

I used to be indecisive. Now I'm not sure.... :)
Morning everybody... you all have a great week ahead..

Friday, December 17, 2010

Ever stop to think, and forget to start again?

Morning you all....:)

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Work Eight hours and sleep Eight hours and make sure they are not the same hours.....

Morning everybody... :) any agendas for the weekend ?

Sunday, December 12, 2010

I want to double my drive space. I think I will delete the Windows!!!!!
Good Morning Y'all.

Friday, December 10, 2010

A riddle for you to keep awake...
Eighty percent of Kindergarteners solved this riddle, but only 5% of Stanford graduates figured it out!

Can you answer the following questions in one word?

1. The word has seven letters....
2. Preceded God...
3. Greater than God...
4. More Evil than the devil...
5. All poor people have it...
6. Wealthy people need it....
7. If you eat it, you will die.

Did you figure it out?

Thursday, December 9, 2010

When everything's coming your way, you're in the wrong lane and going the wrong way.
Read between the lines folks ;;)
Morning every body...

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

Six Human Needs

All human behaviour is driven by an instinct to fulfil one or more basic human needs. Abraham Maslow developed a hierarchy of needs model in the 1940/1950s in the USA. The original model defined five human needs, but has been added to and amended over the years. The original needs hierarchy was:
Biological & Physiological needs; (basic life needs air, food, drink, sleep, shelter, warmth, sex etc)
Safety needs; (protection, order, security, law, stability)
Love & Belongingness needs; (relationships, family, love, belonging)
Esteem needs; (responsibility, status, achievement, purpose)
Self Actualisation; (personal fulfilment and growth)
The Hierarchy of needs is still valid today to understanding motivation and personal development. We are all motivated by needs, unhappiness, stress, lack of direction in our lives all stem from an unfulfilled need. To be fulfilled and happy with life and ourselves we need to fill these six needs in a positive way.
The Six Needs Are
LOVE & CONNECTION
The need to fill love & connection with and for others.
PURPOSE
The need to feel we have a purpose in life and are significant and have meaning to others. We are unique, special, and individual.
CERTAINITY
The need to know that everything is settled and secure.
UNCERTAINITY
The complete opposite of the above. The need to feel that life is interesting, challenging and exciting
We all have the ability to get these first four needs fulfilled, even if it is sometimes in a negative way.
The fifth & sixth needs are not met by everyone, yet by attaining them they offer us the key to inner peace and fulfilment.
GROWTH
The need for the feeling we are growing spiritually, intellectually, physically, mentally.
GIVING
The need to feel that we are giving of ourselves for the benefit of others. Everyone has their own unique requirements for the fulfilment of the six needs. The degree in which they are met defines our quality of life and happiness.
Life coaching can help you identify and fulfil these needs and take you from where you are now on the road to where you want to be.
I believe it is far more impressive when others discover your good qualities without your help.

Hmmm time to ponder... Morning Y'all :)

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

I need someone really bad. Are you really bad?
lets see and wait :)
Morning everyone...

Monday, December 6, 2010

Perhaps I am a bear, or some hibernating animal underneath, for the instinct to be half asleep all winter is so strong in me.

Ahhh I wish it could happen ;)

Sunday, December 5, 2010

Top 3 Successful Habits (You Must Adopt)

Do you want to be a winner in your life? If you do, this will be the perfect article that you must continue to read on. You are about to find out the top 3 winner attitude that are adopted by every successful person out there. And if you adopt the same habit, you will produce the same amazing results in your life. You can achieve any target, goal and dream that you desire.
You have to understand that success is something that you repeatedly do in your life. It is not something that will happen in an instant. You are not going to become a millionaire overnight. Thus, success is determined by the actions that you take in your life. And your actions will be determined by your habits. Therefore, if you adopt the winning habit, you will produce winner’s results…
1. The first winner habit that you must adopt is this, you must have a clear vision. Always think and focus on your vision. You have to have a clear target of what you want. If you do not have a target, how can you actually hit it? It is just like driving a car, if you do not have a destination, you will end up nowhere. Thus, find out what you want to accomplish in your life right now. Set clear and specific targets and goals in every area of your life.
2. The second winner habit is to be proactive. Think about it, money will not grow on tree and it will not fall from the sky. You have to be the one who is proactive to take action and make things happen. If you are not doing anything, you will produce nothing. So make sure you do something each day so that you will move toward your goals and your dreams everyday. Action produces results. Stop putting things off. Watching television and chatting online are not going to change your life. Do what is necessary right now.
3. The final winner habit that you must adopt here is never give up. This is a common sense, but unfortunately, most people do not have this habit. How many rejection and failure can you take before you quit? If you quit, you will waste all the effort that you have poured in before. So do not quit no matter what. Treat failure and rejection as feedback that can improve your knowledge and skill. This is how Thomas Edison became one of the best inventors in the century. He treats all failures as feedback to improve and move toward his target. You have to be the same.
"The trouble with being punctual is that nobody's there to appreciate it."

What am I suppose to do now ????

Thursday, December 2, 2010

Can any one tell me the difference between being Positive and being Confident ?
When people ask me if I have any spare change, I tell them I have it at home in my spare wallet.

Morning everybody :) u got some change....

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

I was going to buy a copy of The Power of Positive Thinking, and then I thought: What the hell good would that do?

Morning Everybody :) What you all been upto ?